Accepting my less-than-perfect place

You would think the only thing I am learning right now is how to deal with anger! Not so, but perhaps it is an easy and relevant subject for me to write about.

I am reading "A Praying Life" by Paul Miller, and he sheds some helpful insight on sins of the self-will (including anger):

“... when I ACCEPT the place that God has given me- in traffic, a checkout line,
or with a whining child- I open a small door from my soul to God.” He
later goes on to say “The great struggle of my life is not trying to
discern God’s will; it is trying to discern and then disown my own. Once I see
that, then prayer flows. I have to be praying because I’m no longer in charge.
Either I see all of life as a gift, or I demand that life have a certain look to
it.”

So often when I am angry, it is because my own self-will/selfish desire is not met. When I identify this, my required response is to see that I have a self-will, and disown it (involving confession and repentance). I have to accept that life does not have that certain look that I demand of it. Then grace flows.

We DO what we BELIEVE

I am going to restate in a different way what I wrote about in "A practical example of how God untangles my sin." This is just a continuation of what God is teaching me through the illustration of "The Rainbow" (August post).

I believe there is truth to the statement that "we do what we believe." Our actions are indicators of what we think will bring us the greatest happiness or what we think beneficial for others.

I am so thankful to God for reminding me that He is slow to anger and abounding in love. He does not treat me as my sins deserve, because my punishment has fully fallen upon His Son. He has showed me that anger toward my children is not beneficial to them. It sounds obvious... that expressed anger is not good. But do you know I actually believed on some level that anger was a necessary component of my discipline toward my children. I'm not talking about violent levels of anger- I'm just talking about a raised voice with a cutting-edge to it, or a glaring look of the eye. I thought "how else will they really know that what they have done is unacceptable?" When I did try to control my anger toward my children, it was difficult to not get upset... in my flesh I was unable. I knew on some level that I needed, at least, restrained anger, but I couldn't help but continue to feel angry. I was still BELIEVING that some degree of anger was necessary for the good of my children. I didn't really realize I believed this, but after what God has taught me through "The Rainbow," I see I believe differently.

Now, believing that God fully punished Christ for my sin, removing His anger from me, I am empowered to treat my children with long-suffering and compassion when they sin. The point here is that I now BELIEVE my anger is harmful and I grasp this aspect of the Gospel more fully. Now I BELIEVE that patience with my children causes them to seek my face and ultimately seek Him. And since I BELIEVE it, it is actually easier to DO it. I don't find myself feeling out-of-control when my kids disobey. I remember God's teaching and find myself responding with compassion and patience. My little one's will look in my eyes now!

In our Bible study this morning we discussed how every sin we commit because we fail to believe the Gospel at some point. EVERY sin. I pray I would understand the facets of the Gospel more deeply, and that God will continue to strip the power of my every sin.

Sunlight- thoughts on another benefit

I was just listening to an advertisement (for a Purity Products Vitamin D supplement) on the radio that got me thinking. Vitamin D is a unique substance because our bodies use sunlight to synthesize it for use in our body's cells. Apparently, our bodies produce around 20,000 IU's of Vitamin D in 20 minutes of exposure to direct sunlight. Persons that work in the sun, such as roofers and lifeguards, have high levels of Vitamin D. Most of the rest of us apparently, are running a bit low.

There is debate about how many IU's of Vitamin D we need daily for optimal function. Of course, the advertisement I was listening to was trying to sell a supplement, so I have to take their recommendations with a "grain of salt." It seems that levels that are greater than around 50,000 IU's per day offer the best health benefits, including improved blood pressure, less "ache and pain," and most notably to me, a "sense of well-being."

The advertisement offered statistics on "sense of well-being": those closer to the equator have better moods than those closer to the poles. How many times have we heard of problems with lack of light causing things like seasonal affective disorder? I've heard statistics that suicide rates are highest in places like Seattle and Dublin, and those places are certainly low on the sun-continuum. And when I think of folks in tropical places, I usually envision great big smiles on their faces. It seems actual sunlight is one key to happiness and health.

The creativity of God in designing us to need physical light, by which we can receive physical joy and health, makes me think of deeper meanings God has for us when we consider LIGHT. As we NEED physical light to be healthy and have well-being, we NEED Christ to have fullness of joy and life (here and eternally) to the fullest.

"...the people living in darkness have seen a great light; on those living in the land of the shadow of death a light has dawned." Matthew 4:16

Christ is the light, and there are benefits of walking in the light:

But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, purifies us from all sin. 1 John 1:7

Live as children of light (for the fruit of light consists in all goodness, righteousness and truth) and find out what pleases the Lord. Ephesians 5:9-10

I'm sure there are many a sermon preaching on "the light," but it is beyond my intention to write one! But I just love to look at how God so often gives us tangible references to Him in our everyday world. We need the Word to understand them, but creation cries out and points clearly to Him, if we would have eyes to see and ears to hear.

The heavens declare the glory of God; the skies proclaim the work of his hands. Day after day they pour forth speech; night after night they display knowledge. There is no speech or language where their voice is not heard. Psalm 19: 1-3

And:

For since the creation of the world God's invisible qualities-his eternal power and divine nature- have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that men are without excuse. Romans 1:20

May I seek His face as my source of joy, and not forget to get some sun!

A practical example of how God untangles my sin

As a person who loves lists, diagrams, and organization, I love to have things wrapped up in a neat little package (with a bow on top). Of course, one cannot wrap up the workings of God quite so neatly, but let me try to describe a recent/current example of HOW God, through the ministry of the Holy Spirit, is working in my life. I hope to flesh out how the Holy Spirit, and my obedience to what He teaches me, untangles the power of sin in a specific instance in my life.

If you did not read my entry "The Rainbow" (see August 2009), you need to read it first to understand this story:

God was gracious to me last week (through the "grace word picture" of the rainbow) and reminded me of his tender care for me, His long-suffering toward me when I am disobedient, and His desire that I be in relationship with Him. He wants me to turn toward Him and seek His face. He does not desire that I distance myself from Him and look the other way.

In the past few months, I noticed that when I was disciplining one of the twins (2 1/2 years old), she would not give me eye-contact. She would not seek my face but would turn away, fearing my anger. God convicted me that I had not been gentle enough with her, and that relationship WITH her should be my primary focus, even in times when her actions require that I discipline her. So NOW, when she is disobedient or disrespectful, I hear (no, not audibly!) the Holy Spirit's reminder that God has been patient with ME, so I should in turn be patient with HER. He patiently seeks MY face, so I should patiently seek HER face. So I back off and wait until she can look at me with trust in her eyes, and THEN give her instructions or words of discipline. I am empowered to be able to love her, rather than just feeling the need to express anger in response to her actions. The Spirit prompts me to lay down my desire to express anger, calls me to submit in humility, and is renewing a relationship of trust between the two of us.

Will I mess up? Yes, of course. I'm sure there will be many times when I walk in the flesh, and therefore do not hear the Holy Spirit at all. But I know that "better is one day in His courts than a thousand elsewhere (Psalm 84:10)." I know that He will be faithful to seek my face and incline my heart to pursue Him. It is my prayer that God will work through me so that as my children learn to love and trust me, they will ultimately grow to love and trust HIM.

A New Season: K-1 Plans

Although we did not really take the summer off from our school schedule, we relaxed things a bit. Because we had twin 2-year olds to train and tend to throughout the day, we needed the structure of a schedule on the days we were at home. "Stations" worked well for us. I set up activities in different rooms with 15-minute timed rotations. This helped train the twins to work independently, and decreased the overall chaos level in the house. It also allowed me to have 1:1 time with each child (a rare thing for the younger ones in particular). Station activities included anything from "My Pretty Ponies" and puzzles for the twins, to playing in the sink. The oldest child worked on independent readers, workbook pages, and tying shoes (etc.). During the twins' nap, the oldest and I spent about an hour working on 1:1 lesson material.

Because I am excited about the new school season, I want to make a list of what we will be using, in general (for the K-1 child). You know how I LOVE to write lists (I should add that to my profile...)

For some reason there seems to be no underline feature on this thing, so I will just italicize book titles.

Phonics/Spelling - The Writing Road to Reading - Spaulding
Spelling Workout A- Modern Curriculum Press
Language- First Language Lessons- Jessie Wise
History- The Story of the World- Volume 1: Ancient Times- Susan Wise Bauer
Bible- First Catechism- Great Commission Publications
Big Truths for Little Kids and ABC Bible Verses- Susan Hunt
Kindergarten Learning About God- Positive Action Bible Curriculum
Class at Harvester Teaching Services and family life/devotions
Math- Math-U-See- Steve Demme
Science- Various sources, earth sciences and human body- Hidden Pond Nature Center classes
Spanish- Rosetta Stone
Art- Class at Harvester Teaching Services
Reading- We love books that are recommended by Sonlight- regular library visits

One more list. Right now we are reading:

Voyage of the Dawn Treader- Book 5 of the Narnia series by C.S. Lewis
Missionary Stories with the Millers- Mildred A. Martin
James Herriot's Treasurey for Children- James Herriot
My Father's Dragon- Ruth Stiles Gannett

Oh, and the oldest is now going to be responsible for maintaining a chore chart that includes earning star stickers for positive character traits (with associated Biblical principles). If she completes each chore for the day without parental reminder, she will earn a special sticker.

Now if we can just manage to potty train and keep up with the little ones while all this is going on, we'll be doing well. All by God's grace!

The Rainbow

This afternoon I had one of those days. The twins were beyond fussy and my tension level rose and rose as nothing I did solved the problem. After 4 1/2 hours of continuous fussing and crying, I was too angry to be able to read a bedtime story in love, so I passed the children to my husband and took off in the car. As I cried out to God, I confessed my inability to control my anger and by inability to have patience sufficient for my job of being a mother. I knew that God would meet me in some way and refresh me, but I was astounded by his faithfulness in the way he chose to reveal himself to me. As I rounded a turn, there was a rainbow right in front of me! I decided to drive straight to my special "mountain" (a big hill in Kingstowne) where I had been blessed by the Lord before (you'll hear that story whenever I get around to writing "The Jordan River - Part 2").

As I stood on my "mountain" with the glorious rainbow in full view , I knew God had something to teach me, and could feel my anger melting away as I understood the message. I recalled the promise of the Lord, from Genesis 9:12-16, after the great flood:

And God said, "This is the sign of the covenant I am making between me and you and every living creature with you, a covenant for all generations to come: I have set my rainbow in the clouds, and it will be the sign of the covenant between me and the earth. Whenever I bring clouds over the earth and the rainbow appears in the clouds, I will remember my covenant between me and you and all living creatures of every kind. Never again will the waters become a flood to destroy all life. Whenever the rainbow appears in the clouds, I will see it and remember the everlasting covenant between God and all living creatures of every kind on the earth."

I considered that as angry as I felt at the sin of my child and as strong as my desire was to punish it, God had felt more anger at the sins of man, and had punished them by wiping them off the earth with the waters of the flood. BUT THEN, He promised NEVER again to do the same to the earth. Instead, the rainbow reminds me that Christ bore the full wrath of God's punishment for sin. All of His anger was directed toward Christ on the cross, Christ being punished out of love for me, that I would not have to bear God's wrath. So instead of wrath toward me, God extends forgiveness and long-suffering:

2 Peter 3:9b He is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance.

How many times have I been so much more disobedient and stiff-necked than my child was today? Yet God does not treat me as my sins deserve; rather He is patient with me. His tender care draws me toward Him, leading me into repentance and strengthening my trust in His goodness and my desire to follow where He leads. By His grace, I pray I will be long-suffering in my care of my children, that I might encourage them to seek His loving and merciful face.

By the way, the rainbow in the picture is not the same one I saw today. I forgot to take a picture :(.

Cup of Need

I used to go through life looking for the next "mountain top" experience, and while mountains have a place, I've learned something different. Grace flows downhill. As Roy Hession states in his book "We Would See Jesus":

"Grace permits us to come (nay, demands that we come) as empty sinners to be blessed: empty of right feelings, good character and satisfactory record, with nothing to commend ourselves but our deep need, fully and frankly acknowledged. Then grace, being what it is, is drawn by that need to satisfy it, just as water is drawn to depth (by gravity) that it might fill it."

So I have begun to picture myself as a cup of need. The more I become aware that I am sinful and needy to the core, the easier this becomes. When I am NOT walking by faith and trusting God to meet my needs and fill me, I fill up my "need cup" with idols that temporarily satisfy me... I seek selfish comfort pleasures, put my focus on ME and not others. The list goes on (and on, and on, and on!) But, when I admit my need and and confess the sins that would tend to block the flow of God's grace meeting my need in HIS way, grace does what it naturally seeks to do, and fills me.

Hession goes on to say (after also revealing more insights that I did not quote):

"The struggle, of course, is to believe it and to be willing to be but empty sinners to the end of our days, that grace may continue to match our needs."

So be the cup! Admit my need. I can't do it on my own and only distance myself from the Father when I try to do it my way. I will rest in the knowledge that sinner though I am, His grace is sufficient (abundantly so!) for me.

"X" Amount of Time and Energy

I can tell that my blogging will go in fits and spurts. Sometimes I am flooded with new insights and a desire to communicate, and other times I am filled with non-blog joys and struggles. On one hand, I want to write about things that God has taught me in the past... things I have never put down on paper and wish to preserve for myself and others. On the other hand, there is a stagnancy that comes from dwelling on the past and trying to re-experience it. What is God doing in my life NOW? If I look at the answer to this question, there is freshness. If I burden myself with trying to re-create old experiences, though I think there is a time for that, I can stunt the current work of grace God wishes to perform in my life (well, I can never truly stunt what God is doing... that is just what it feels like from my end of the experience).

One thing I am aware of lately, is that the Spirit never teaches me the exact same thing, in the same way, twice. As Aslan says in Prince Caspian (for those who don't know, Aslan represents, though not perfectly, Jesus) "things never happen the same way twice." Sometimes I expect God to keep meeting me the same way He once did, but what HE wants to do is meet me in a new and different way, progressing me forward in my knowledge of Him.

What is He teaching me NOW? It's in process, and I'm not fully able to articulate it, but it has to do with a "both/and" of God's character and the way that it plays out in my life. Dr. Ray Ortland Jr. was my pastor in Augusta, GA (early in my Christian walk), and he explained that great depth of knowledge of the character of God is revealed whenever we encounter a "both/and." This means that God is BOTH merciful, AND just for example. Or, BOTH the Lion, AND the Lamb. I love to encounter such tensions as I study the Bible, because in delving into them, I discover more about Him.

As I begin to write about my current "both/and" struggle, I go back to the title of this blog and recall the reason I have trouble putting my thoughts into words. Part of the reason, is the thoughts are still "in process". God has not taught me enough about the area I'm contemplating to put it into words (and that's OK Vicki, by golly, that's OK!). And part of the reason is reality... I have "X" amount of time and energy. And right now, I'm going to go watch a movie with my husband! Pray I will do well putting the right priorities first:).

So look out for whatever insights God sends my way about that and other "grace word pictures" (like part 2 of my "Jordan River" writing), whenever I get there!

Polyface Farms- The Meal

So, for any of you who read "The Omnivore's Dilemma," the author eats meals from three different sources: fast food, grass fed, and self-gathered. The grass fed meal featured meat and eggs from Polyface Farms, here in Virginia. In that same spirit, I decided on the way home from my first "beyond organic" food pickup, that I should prepare a nice first meal. Unlike Pollan (the author of the book), I only had 2 1/2 hours until meal time, and three needy children with me.

After a quick trip to Giant, I arrived at home, unpacked, cleaned the kitchen, and entrusted the children to grill-master "Daddy care." This meant that I had a relatively peaceful time throwing together the food, and that the steaks (two 8-ounce NY Strips) were wonderfully grilled, but that the children were naked in the backyard pool. Daddy care always adds spice to the day, for the better.

When I licked my fingers from cutting the steak to test doneness, I could already tell that it was good. It was very flavorful, and although it was a little bit tough, the toughness was not a distraction, it was just not what you would describe as a tender steak. But it was delicious, worth every dollar of the fifteen we paid for the two steaks.

The meal was served with baked sweet potatoes, sweet corn-on-the-cob, and the best nectarines we've had in several years. I seriously doubt that all of the sides were locally grown, and I'd have a strong suspicion that the corn had a little genetic engineering going on or something to make it THAT sweet. But hey, we just take baby steps in the right direction, correct?

The only BAD part of the meal was the wine. NEVER buy a red called "Funky Llama" Malbec. I've never heard of a Malbec wine, but that doesn't scare me. The name "Funky Llama" should have given me a clue. I don't know who is going to finish the bottle, but it won't be us. Be wary if you are invited to be our guest for dinner this week!

In the Eyes of a Child - "Am I Dreaming?"

A conversation between our 5-year-old and I yesterday:

"Am I dreaming?" Keelin asks with a questioning look on her face, sucking on an Altoid mint.

"No. Why does it seem like you're dreaming?"

"I always feel like I'm dreaming when I'm doing something special. I get that feeling sometime almost ever single day."

I smile, "What is special right now?"

"Well, Daddy gave me a mint, AND you bought me ice-cream today!"

I know the feeling of it seeming I'm in a dream when something special is happening. The striking difference is that it takes something huge, like getting married or having a baby, to produce that feeling in me. A child's heart of thankfulness can be so genuine as they have new experiences daily. Their sense of wonder is so close to the surface, and they haven't become hardened and cynical by the effects of living in this fallen world. I think in heaven we will be in a continuous state of amazement, once again. For now, I'll just enjoy watching and learning from my little ones, and pray that God will give me the faith/heart of a little child.

Polyface Farms

So I have placed my first order with a local Polyface Farms buying club, and my fresh meat and eggs will arrive next week! I learned about Polyface when reading The Omnivore's Dilemma by Michael Pollan. In the book, Pollan surveys and experiences food in our culture. He investigates typical industrial, corn-based food production, looks into pros and cons of industrial organic food production, spends time as a hunter-gatherer, and even becomes a temporary vegetarian. He sought to have an objective view of the issues involved with our food choice dilemma. One of the primary things he came out in favor of, is buying from local farms. This reduces the fossil fuel consumption needed to get the food to our plates, and is usually a more nutritious option for our families.

Polyface Farms is near Staunton, Virginia, and is run by Joel Salantin. Salantin is the head of a homeschooling family, and comes from a long line of inventive "beyond organic" farmers. He describes himself as a "Christian-conservative-libertarian-environmentalist-lunatic farmer." He describes his farm, which produces chickens, eggs, cattle, pigs, turkeys, grapes, ETC. as a GRASS farm. The way he farms uses grass as the base (well almost) of the food chain, so his cows (and then chickens, etc.) eat what God designed them to eat, rather than living in cages and eating corn. The grass fed animals produce superior meat and eggs. The cost of buying their products is more pricey, but there are almost no hidden costs to the environment (no chemicals, the land is self-replenishing as he maximizes use of composting and other natural land restorative methods). The farm will only sell food locally (within a few hours drive), and that, just-barely includes us!

I'll let you know how the food tastes in a couple of weeks. Yum yum!

The Jordan River - Part 1

A personal picture of my spiritual journey is represented by the physical geography of the Old Testament from Egypt to the promised land of Israel. My own spiritual condition during different phases of my life, and many of my experiences, seem to mirror those of the Israelites.

Please refer to the posted diagram of a cross section of Israel. When I visualize my own spiritual journey, from the time before I knew Christ to now, as I journey on towards eternity, I frequently picture the stages of my walk as the same walk the Israelites took. I am not certain that the way I visualize every aspect of this is 100% theologically accurate, but I hope/believe the majority of it is accurately extrapolated from Scripture. So bear with me.

1. Characteristics of life in Egypt: Because the captivity of the Israelites to Egypt represents captivity to sin, I think of Egypt as the place where I was before I knew and trusted in Christ. I was a slave to my own desires and wants, and could do nothing to save myself. Just as the Isrealites were set free from Egypt by miraculous acts of God (saved from the angel of death at the Passover, led through the Red Sea, etc.) I was saved from death when I accepted Christ's blood as being sufficient to cover my sins. For me, this new life began in my mid-20's.
2. Characteristics of life in the desert: After escaping slavery in Egypt, did the Israelites then go straight to the land of promise? No. They went into the desert for years and years of alternating trust in their God, and more often, stiff-necked, grumbling, rebellious behavior. The Bible says that as believers "we have been given everything we need for life and godliness," but then follows "through our KNOWLEDGE of him who called us by his own glory and goodness." Although, as a new believer, God saw me as perfectly forgiven because of my trust in Christ, I still did not UNDERSTAND that I was an heir of promise, blessing, fullness of life, and eternal life. Because I had for so long operated in sin, worshiping idols instead of the one true God, I still habitually turned to my old ways. Like the Israelites, I wandered the desert, wondering where the blessing was, continually turning away from the direction God wanted to lead me, insisting on the sufficiency of my idols/old habits. I grumbled alongside the Israelites, complaining "I'll die without water, what do you have for me to eat and, it would have been better for me to just stay in Egypt!" Of course, there were blessings in the desert. I was learning about my God as I applied His word to my heart. He was proving Himself to me as I took steps of faith and saw Him answer prayer. He was leading me into clearer knowledge of His TRUTH. He was building conviction in me that my idol worship was hindering my walk with Him. He was leading me to the banks of the Jordan River.

OK, so I haven't gotten to the diagram yet.....stay tuned~!

HEAV Conference "Snippits"

I will, by the way, not blog entirely on the subject of word pictures. I am working on one right now, but it is taking a little bit of time. So let me start with some "snippits" from the Home Education Association of Virginia's conference that I attended this weekend. It was a couple of days of encouragement for me, and information overload as well (which I like). A FEW things of impact were:

• One of the Boyer (awesome family with 14 children) children had pondered what caused the children of some of their like-minded friends to fall away from close relationship with the family and the Lord when they left home, while others did not. Some of these families had home educated, and others had used traditional schooling, but all were following Christ and trying to train their children up in His ways. The children of some families had "jumped ship" after leaving home, while others remained close to their families and devoted to Christ. He thought a major contributor to determining the outcome is whether the parent took GENUINE delight in their kids. Kids know whether their parents WANT to be with them. Do I find daily JOY being with my children? They will sense it. They will never leave a place where they are genuinely loved and their needs are satisfied. Or, do I spend my days just trying to get through my to-do list, rushing the children along, so that I can have some time to myself at the end of the day? Pondering these questions was and is a challenge to me. I'll tell you what though, there has been so much joy being with the children this week!
• From Karin Morgan (mother of 11), toddlers should not be expected to play (very much) without structure. I should not just expect the twins (2 1/2) to be out of the way while I work with Keelin. This will end in strife and we will accomplish little. Rather, they should be trained to stay in a certain area, doing a simple activity, for a period of time. It has worked so well this week. I've implemented some "alone" time for them. I set the timer for 15 minutes and Carys is expected to stay with a box of toys, and Élise is to stay in a different room working on puzzles. When the timer goes off, they switch stations, and spend another 15 minutes at the new station. I discipline/train them if they try to do otherwise. I was able to spend quality time with Keelin with little interruption, and the toddlers were enjoying some time without conflict while working on their attention spans. "Better is dry crust with peace and quiet than a house full of feasting, with strife" Proverbs 17:1.
• Also from Karin, the order of priority in character training is obedience, respect, and self-control. A fun game (that you then carry-over to real-life) is "call and command." Karin encouraged us to separate a call to our children, from a command. When a child's name is called by Mom, the child is to come to her, look her in the eyes and say "yes Mom?" Then Mom gives the child a command such as "please go take out the trash," or in the case of our game, "please pretend you just ate a poison apple and you are falling asleep." The child answers "Yes, Mom," and goes to complete the task. Separating call from command teaches respect, obedience, and self-control. The game helps train them in a fun way. The house is already more peaceful as a result.
• Karin also said that when all else fails, just scrap the plan. When we are all having a bad day, it is better to just let the plans go by the wayside, and take the pressure off of everyone. We are not perfect, and our children are not either.
• A common theme I heard when listening to the advice of these large families, is that it is so good for our children to learn that they are an important part of a bigger whole. Their lives are not their own. Train them to be responsible, and expect them to serve others. Work as a family unit, and avoid the way of the world in which children cry out "here I am now, entertain me!" The older Boyer children taught a younger sibling to sing the "I am not the center of the world" song whenever she was acting selfish.
• Work is a gift. It was in the garden BEFORE the fall. Work is worship. You have to do it anyway, why not enjoy it?
• Teach children lines of authority. God, then Father, then Mother, then other persons of authority (such as teachers), then children.
  
• Moms leave home too much (ME!) Take the time to train in the household, young children benefit greatly from structure and routine. Much character training takes place in the home.
  
• Scripture first! Matt. 6:33. Make sure our first priority is truly accomplished. Then He will help us accomplish all else.

Those are just a few of the tidbits from the conference that I found impacting. It was amazing to be with thousands and thousands of other home educators, to see their sweet children (wow, were they well-behaved!) and glean pearls of wisdom from those who have gone before, and done so well.

Getting started

Where to begin? I have wanted to start blogging for some time now, but have been waiting for sure leading and the right time. So today is the right time. I never get any less busy or caught up, but I'm glad to start right now anyway. This seems like a good Sabbath rest activity for me today!

So why do I want to blog? God so often teaches me lessons and gives me beautiful glimpses of himself, and I wish I could share them with people. I regret it whenever the illustrations he shows me are fleeting and I do not have sufficient opportunity to share them with others. Writing a blog can be both a bit of a journal for me, and a chance to share with friends, family, and with anyone else who is interested. Aslan says in Narnia, I think in Prince Caspian (where is the underline button on this thing?) that sometimes a lesson is only meant for the hearer (paraphrase). I know that is so often true, and that what Jesus teaches me is for me certainly; but I hope that lessons and illustrations I learn from Him will also be meaningful and encouraging to others.

The babies are waking now so I must go! (This is probably how my posts will often end). Word pictures to follow!